Friday, December 09, 2022

Sparks of Joy (and links I'm loving)

 

 Whew!  It's been a minute.  Life got a tad crazy over here. . . but good crazy.  It dawned on me this morning that next week will be the first week there has been no after school sports practice since the night before the first day of school. . . and it's the last week of school before break!  We have survived 2 soccer seasons (rec and school) and cross country plus, so many other things that happen in between all that.  It has been fun, but we are longing for the rest that Christmas vacation will bring.  

There are so many things that have been bringing me joy lately.  In a season where the weather is gloomy (I love it!) and budgets are tights (thank you, inflation), it may be hard to find those sparks of joy.  But, they are there. . . just waiting for us to look up from our phones or look past the negative reels and find a funny one and just let out a little chuckle. . . it's good for the soul!  

Here are some of them:

Jon took me to San Francisco for my birthday last month and it was simply, so refreshing to have a change of pace and just relish in a weekend away.  We managed to get into the Top of the Mark (a really nice cocktail bar at the top of the Intercontinental hotel on Nob Hill) right as the sun was setting.  It was such a clear night (Karl, the fog, didn't make crash our party!) that we could see all over.  Plus, the food and drinks were great!  If you are in the area, I highly recommend the visit! (they have great mock tail menu, too!)  

Amanda, over at @graccieone has started up #miniquiltmonday and even though life has been crazy, it has done my heart so much good to get each weekly block done.  This week was the cozy house block and it is seriously the cutest!  Here's mine.  

I got this cookbook for my birthday and I've already used it once to make the most delicious butternut squash and Italian sausage pasta.  It was a huge hit. . . even with the teen and tween!

I think that this cake is needing to be baked. 

 Fall walks are my favorite.  The crunching of the colorful leaves and the time to think or listen to a podcast is just so peaceful.  

I just bought this sweater and I want to wear it all the time!  It's so cozy and soft!

I've been playing around with this tutorial.  It's so easy and relaxing and it might just make a dent in my fabric stash! 

I've also been playing with these!  This is so much fun!  Hallmark movies and creating for the win! 

We played this game the other night and it was so much fun! Also, the kids noticed UNO now has notches so if you are color blind, you can still play!!!

And finally, Target dollar spot has glass trees again!  Be still my heart!! 

I'll be honest with you, busy seasons are hard and finding time to create is hard.  But, I know, the way I am wired, if I don't I start to go a little crazy.  So small projects are my jam. . . So right now, as things are kind of hectic (but slowing down), the things that are bringing me the greatest joy are often the small creative projects lying around.  

What things are bringing you joy this week?  Post yours in the comments or over on the social medias. . . i love hearing from you! 





Wednesday, November 16, 2022

When the busy creeps in

 


There are several things that make me anxious.
Traffic.
Doctor appointments.
And believe it or not, watching my son play soccer (he likes to fall and roll around on the ground. . . He’s fun to watch, but oh, man, my mamma heart!)

A few weeks ago, I finally ventured in for a routine physical (I really loved the excuse the pandemic offered to kind of ignore needed appointments) and after waiting for a little longer than expected, my heart rate was a little elevated. I didn’t even notice because that is how I’ve been feeling for awhile.  I realized that over the past few weeks, I have felt like a nonstop adrenaline rush that I could not snap out of.  Every day was a mad rush to get people where they need to be (because as a mom of very involved boys, I am also a part time taxi driver. . . Tell me I’m not wrong!), the house was a mess and I just couldn’t stay on top of it, along with so many other things that needed done. I also couldn’t make room for things that are life giving for myself.  Needless to say, I was tired, and I knew I needed to take a bit and just slow down.

Something had to change. I had to be intentional about it, but at the same time, I still had to do some things.  So, last week I spent some extra time watching tv and just chilling.  I still did things, but I wasn’t going to stress if some of things went ignored.  I slowed down and so did the adrenaline soaring through my body.  I watched old Matlock episodes, took time to watch Where the Crawdads Sing (which I thankfully was home alone for because I cried. . . A lot!), baked something just because, and had a Hocus Pocus marathon with my family over hummus and peanut butter boards after soccer games. 

As the week went by, my body slowly reset itself and it felt so good.  I started feeling more rested, relaxed, and all around better.

It’s amazing how easy it is for busy to sneak in.  The calendar fills and you know it’s coming, but it still feels like it sneaks up on you.  This fall, I went in knowing just how busy it was going to be and said no to some previous commitments.  It was a bittersweet decision, but I am one hundred percent glad that I said no.  As much as we want to plan for the busy, it comes and often it is full of all wonderful things, but we become tired, short tempered, stressed, and often put God on the back burner. Our pastor recently shared something that’ve heard before, but it is still very good wisdom: Satan loves Busy. . . all he needs to do is keep us busy and we slowly start taking our eyes off Christ and he LOVES that! I’m not going to lie. . . my quiet times are often the first things to go on most days when it’s super busy.  When I’m not spending time reading my Bible or taking time to talk to God, my attitude suffers and busy wins. 

Back when the boys were little and schedules were oh, so quiet (man, do I sometimes miss those days!), there was a popular saying that you could buy on pretty much anything: CHAOS COORDINATOR.  I used to think that being a mom, those young children running around like crazies was the chaos.  Maybe it was?  But in all reality, there is nothing like the chaos of navigating everyone’s different schedules. . .extra curricular activities, ortho appointments, and work.  It is both wonderful and crazy.  Some days, I very much hate it. . . But I absolutely love watching my boys flourish in the things that they love.

Being busy is not necessarily a bad thing.  I love the things that are filling up our calendars, many of them bring me so much joy, but maybe over time business wears on us and causes our adrenaline to flow and a heart to become uneasy. . . like something is missing.  I’m an enneagram 7 and FOMO is a real thing, but I’ve had to learn to say no and choose rest over fun at times. 

As I was resting last week, I really thought about what I could do to help maintain a calm heart (and mind) amidst the chaos of this busy season we are in.  I’m sharing them, because maybe, you are also in a season of business and are just feeling like you can’t get it all done or struggling to find time to just breathe. So here is a quick list of some of my favorite things to do to encourage a calm heart in the midst of the busy.  

1.      1.  Ask for help. 

I’m a stay at home mom and I still need help.  Between Jon and our good friends, we make it work.  But, I can’t do all the busy by myself.  We need each other!  So, don’t be embarrassed to ask for help when things get tricky.

      2.  Make time to spend time with God. 

This one is hard.  But, I am going to be 100 percent honest here: THIS is probably the one thing that keeps me sane.  Taking a few minutes a day to just open my Bible, read, and spend some time praying shifts the state of my heart quicker than anything else on this list. Am I perfect?  That’s a hard NO! In fact, the busier it gets the harder it is to get that time in, but I try really hard.  Invite God into your day and I will guarantee your day will be better.  God might not take the busy away, but He definitely calms my heart and never leaves us without His presence and strength to get through the day. . . that there is encouragement to my weary heart.

3.       3.  Get outside and take a quick walk.  

     Vitamin D and a little movement helps so much.  Vitamin D and some movement are just what we need to take a breath in between all the crazy.

4   4.   Treat yourself.  

      I know this sounds crazy.  But schedule in your favorite coffee from your favorite coffee shop in between appointments or drop offs.  Or grab your favorite lunch and spend a few minutes just reading or soaking in the quiet.  Laura Tremaine talks often on her instagram about reading lunches.  I know I need to get back in the habit of this one! 

5   5.  Do something that brings your heart joy.

If you are reading this, there is a pretty good chance you’re a mom.  But, I know that if you aren’t. . . This still applies!  The calendar fills up and we are the first to give up the things that feed our soul.  You know how you are wired.  I am wired for traveling, crafting, and the occasional good book and it’s so hard to fit those things in, but I realized this year, that when I do fit in something, whether a quick quilt block or a delicious reading lunch, my step is lighter and somehow the busy doesn’t seem to feel so overwhelming.

These are just 5 things.  No matter what your life is throwing at you today, know that you are not alone and you will get through this.  Busy or not, our life is better when we put Christ first and take time to breathe.  Let me know what helps you through the busy seasons down below in the comments.  I love to hear from you. 

Friday, October 21, 2022

apple cider donuts


 Fall is my favorite. 

I know there are only 4 seasons to pick from, and each of them entirely different from the other, but fall is just the best (sorry, if you are more of a summer or winter person!).  Walking through sidewalks covered in dried up leaves, layering my clothes (hello favorite sweatshirts and jean jacket, you have been missed!), drinking a HOT pumpkin latte from my favorite local coffee, soccer games and all the excuses to gather with my people. 

I have this video I took a few years ago on a pathway near my in-laws house. On cold, fall days it RAINS leaves.  No joke, these big huge (possibly oak?) leaves fall from the rows of trees that line the sidewalk to the neighborhood park.  Click this link and you can find it!  It's gorgeous! 

I also want to bake ALL the things.  And here’s the thing.  It has not been super fall-ish here.  The leaves are just barely beginning to turn and just some of our trees are raining leaves . . . And that’s IF the wind blows.  This is the first week, where I’ve needed to put a sweatshirt on when I took the kids to school and it didn’t really stay on that long, but it's not triple digits.  It’s a start, though.  And looking at our weather, I have high hopes of wearing a sweatshirt to Ethan’s game on Saturday afternoon, where usually we sit under umbrellas, don wide brimmed sun hats, and lather up the sunscreen and deodorant! I am excited!

Last week, when it was still in the 90’s, I decided we needed a taste of fall.  I bought a Costco pumpkin pie (I just couldn’t help it!) and some apple cider and a jug of oil.  We were going to eat that pie and I was going to make the apple cider donut recipe I found on the most recent cover of Bake from Scratch magazine.  Weston had been with me when I bought it and had agreed that it had to be done.  I will be honest with you, usually if I make donuts they are the Bake kind using THIS doughnut pan.  It’s a lot of work to make fried donuts. . . So if you are going to make them, you’ve got to commit to them.  The nice thing about these were, that they don’t use yeast, so there isn’t a proofing time.  These needed to be stuck in the fridge for at least an hour, so it allowed me to break up the making process into chunks.  Super easy! 

This recipe has a few little steps, but please don’t let that detour you.  Plan ahead and do some things a day or two early, or even take a short cut and buy store bought.  I wrote some helpful hints and notes under the recipe, so make sure to check that out, because this recipe is 100 percent worth the time and energy to make.

I fried these up on a Saturday night, so the kids had a delicious breakfast for Sunday ready to go before church.  Sundays are usually filled with something delicious. . .and usually easy since I take a little bit more time getting ready in the morning than my male dominated house. . . Ha ha.  Most of the time, Jon tosses some Pillsbury cinnamon rolls or Trader Joe’s almond croissants in the oven, but occasionally, I like to surprise them with something yummy. . . Like these donuts. 

 So, before you read the instructions, pay close attention to these words:

A lot of steps does NOT mean this is a hard recipe.  (It is actually super simple!)

2.       Plan what you can do ahead (or make take a shortcut. . . (I will help you out in the instructions).

3.       Don’t run away screaming.  Repeat after me: I am capable.  I can do this.  I will do this. 

 

Now, go hop on amazon and buy this.  You are going to need it to be able to make your donuts.

And consider this.  It is a game changer, for getting them out without all the oil leaving your pot!


Now here’s the recipe. . . Don’t forget to look for my helpful hints at the bottom. 

Spiced Apple Cider Donuts

Adapted from Bake from Scratch, Fall 2022

 

Ingredients:

3 cups apple cider


6 Tbsp unsalted butter, softened

½ cup sugar

2 large eggs

3 ½ cups flour

4 tsp baking powder

1½ tsp cinnamon

1 ¼ tsp Apple (or pumpkin) pie spice*

1 tsp salt

¼ cup buttermilk **

¼ cup apple butter ***

½ cup reduced apple cider (COOLED)

1 tsp vanilla

 

4 cups oil & 4 cups of vegetable shortening

Cinnamon and sugar for tossing warm donuts in

Directions:

1.        In a medium saucepan, bring cider to a boil.  Simmer over medium high heat until cider is reduced to ½ cup.  This step takes 30ish minutes depending on your stove.  Keep an eye on it, but you can totally do the dishes or catch up on that book you’re reading while you stand there keeping an eye on that cider.  This needs to cool for awhile.  It will also get thicker as it cools. 

2.       Time to make the doughnut dough.  In your stand mixer, with the paddle attachment, cream butter and sugar together until light and fluffy.  Scrape sides of bowl and add eggs.  Beat well.  This will look funny and you might question everything at this point, but be strong.  You are doing good!

3.       Slowly add dry ingredients and spices and wet ingredients (buttermilk, cider, and apple butter), alternating between the two of them.  Beat only until it is just combined.  Just like making muffins, you don’t want to overheat once you add that flour, or else your dough just won’t be as great!

4.       Cover and refrigerate for at least an hour.  This is a great time to go to bed and finish tomorrow, or just go run some errands, or play a game of monopoly with the kiddos. 

5.       Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. . . You aren’t going to bake these donuts, but you do need a place to set the rounds and holes where they won’t stick before you fry them. 

6.       Get out a wire rack, make your cinnamon sugar and heat up your oil in a heavy bottom pot (I used my Dutch oven for this).  Your oil is good to go when it gets to 350 degrees.

7.       While the oil is heating, flour a surface and pat out the dough, like you are making scones.  Use that donut cutter I mentioned a ways back there and cut out donuts.  Place them on your baking sheet. 

8.       In batches of 2 (or 3. . . However you feel comfortable), carefully place the donuts in (don’t toss, we don’t want to burn your hands, face, or eyes!).  Cook for about 1 ½ minutes on each side.  If you have a meat or bread thermometer (they are almost the same thing. . . Long stabby thing that you poke into bread or meat for get the internal temp), check to make sure it reads 198-200 degrees and then you’ll know they are finished cooking.  Nothing is worse than taking a bite of a beautiful donut and finding it completely raw inside (trust me. . . I KNOW this from experience!)

9.       Place hot donut on metal rack and let it cool slightly and then toss in cinnamon and sugar. 

10.   Eat them up.  Take them some to a friend or neighbor. 

Now, for those helpful hints:

·         The original recipe calls for apple pie spice.  I didn’t have that, but when I googled the ingredients, they are basically the same thing as pumpkin pie spice, which I did have.

·         :: Buttermilk is something I often don’t have in the fridge.  But, milk and a little bit of vinegar will give the same effect.  I even do this with oatmilk (I use Oatly) and NOBODY every knows!

·         :: Apple butter: You can buy this at Trader Joe’s or Williams Sonoma, but you can also just make some with applesauce, which is what I did.  I made mine a week or so before, because I knew we would be making these. A lot of the recipes are using a crockpot, but you can kind of wing it on the stove top with a jar of apple sauce, brown sugar and spices.  Just use pinterest for 100's of recipes and what works for you. 

·        ::  I also did not use the shortening like it called for. . . I actually didn’t even see that until I typed this recipe and was like, OOPS!  I don’t know if it would have gotten a better fry or not, but they turned out great. 

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